Valentine's Day & The Power of Self-Love

Valentine’s Day is often associated with romantic love, but it’s also the perfect time to celebrate the most important relationship in your life—the one with yourself. While treating yourself to beauty products and spa days is a wonderful way to indulge, self-love goes much deeper than that. True self-care is about nurturing your mind, body, and soul in ways that uplift and empower you. This Valentine’s Day, I want to encourage you to prioritize self-love with intentional practices that go beyond the surface.

Staycations & Solo Retreats

One of my favorite ways to show myself love is by taking a staycation alone. There’s something incredibly refreshing about checking into my favorite winery (Ponte Vineyard Inn) or a beachside resort (Hyatt Huntington Beach), even if it’s just for a day or a quick overnight stay. These moments allow me to step away from my daily routine, relax, and recharge. Giving yourself permission to take a break—without guilt—is one of the greatest acts of self-care.

The Power of Learning

Another way to cultivate self-love is by committing to continuous learning. Knowledge is power, and expanding our minds through reading, listening to audiobooks, or researching a new topic builds confidence and self-worth. My most recent read “The Let Them Theory” by Mel Robbins is one I highly recommend! Learning something new isn’t just about professional growth; it strengthens our sense of purpose and reminds us that we are always evolving.

Nature Walks & Grounding Practices

A simple yet powerful form of self-love is taking a walk outdoors. Walking not only clears my mind but also helps me release stress and tension. Halfway through my walk, I like to pause, ground myself, and take a few minutes to practice gratitude, meditate, and manifest my goals. This ritual allows me to reconnect with myself and appreciate the present moment. My beloved trail that I have fallen head over heels for since my daughter was very young has become so meaningful to me- the Bolsa Chica Wetlands in Huntington Beach, California.

Intentional Self-Care Beyond Beauty

While skincare routines, massages, and shopping sprees can be a form of self-care, true self-love is about deeper, lasting fulfillment. It’s about making space for joy, growth, and reflection in everyday life. Whether it’s setting aside time to be alone, committing to personal development, or simply taking a mindful walk, these small but meaningful acts reinforce our worth and well-being.

This Valentine’s Day, I encourage you to embrace self-love in ways that nourish your soul. How will you show yourself love today?